Relax your hold....
Aparigrahasthairye Janma Kathamtha Sambodhaha|
When one stands firmly rooted in the Yama of Aparigraha or not holding on to anything material or non-material - this includes objects, people, emotions, thoughts and ideas - then the process of life is revealed. This process is the knowledge of how we came into the world in the first place and how many times we have been coming and going. This leads to the effort in the direction of putting an end to this coming and going by simply being in the presence of the one awareness. - Swahilya Shambhavi. (The art of letting go...perfected by babies! : In Pic. Baby Akshara by Swahilya Shambhavi.)